Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

3 Ways to Help a Man Open Up to You

Episode Summary

Have you ever been on a date (or in a relationship) and wanted the man to open up to you, but felt as though he wouldn’t? This week we share an audience fav, re-edited and remastered for your listening pleasure! You'll hear Lisa and Benjamin sharing a few practical and easy techniques to get your man to get emotionally naked with you. Whether you are on a first date or years into a relationship, these simple suggestions will create a container for both you and a man to feel lighter, more connected, and joyful!

Episode Notes

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

- How to create vulnerability in the context of trust and safety, without sharing every detail of your life.

- Some specific examples of what you could share on a date that is vulnerable and will help a man feel closer to you while still leaving some room for subtlety.

- Instead of interviewing your date, we learn to receive and reciprocate.

- The art of playfulness takes away anxiety and brings a lighter mood to both you and your date.

- Humor creates an instant connection.

- Why insatiable curiosity is not only a turn on for men, but something they crave in their day to day life.

- Date isn’t asking a lot of questions? Don’t discard him yet!

- Two strangers can be genuinely curious about each other and have a magical evening and go their separate ways, so even if your date isn’t your soulmate, you can still learn something and practice these techniques.

- We remember how people make us feel, so make sure you are in the bell jar and present with who is in front of you.

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Quotes:

"It requires a certain confidence to be playful." - Lisa

"Laughter washes away anxiety." - Benjamin

"There is something magical about the art of presence and being in the moment." - Lisa