Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

GITRMM: What Is More Important to a Man, Looks or Personality?

Episode Summary

On this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®, we delve into the age-old question: what is more important to a man, looks or personality? Our hosts Benjamin and Lisa Shield tackle this topic head-on, discussing traditional ideas about love, the concept of love languages, and Lisa’s personal experience as a fashion photographer working with models who are both beautiful and deeply insecure. They emphasize the importance of substance, compatibility, emotional availability, and kindness in a fulfilling relationship, going beyond superficial appearances. Tune in to discover their insights and lessons learned from their own journey together. Plus, they share details about their transformative twelve-week program that helps women find Guardian of Their Soul relationships. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®. Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com

Episode Notes

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

• Challenging Beauty Standards: Lisa shares her experiences and observations in the fashion industry and how beauty can be both a blessing and a curse.
• The Importance of Personality: Benjamin and Lisa empahsize the significance of developing one's personality and engaging with others in a healthy way, rather than relying solely on physical appearance.
• Beyond Superficiality: The episode delves into the belief that true beauty and meaningful relationships go beyond superficial appearances.
• Lisa’s Relationship Journey: The podcast host reflects on her own personal journey in finding and maintaining a fulfilling relationship, highlighting the importance of teamwork and emotional vulnerability.
• The Role of Kindness and Emotional Availability: The speakers discuss the qualities that make someone attractive to them, including kindness, emotional availability, and consistency between words and actions.
• True Attraction: The episode concludes with the idea that while beauty may attract attention, real and lasting love requires something deeper than just physical appearance - it requires a genuine connection and compatibility.

Key quotes:

• "Beauty will always attract attention, but to have true and lasting love, a woman has to offer something more." — Lisa Shield 
• "When a woman has confidence in herself, her confidence can overshadow her appearance and make a woman shine. That is incredibly attractive." — Benjamin Shield 
• "The difference between being rich and being wealthy is being rich means having a lot of money, but being wealthy means being happy with what you have." — Benjamin Shield 
• "If I'm sitting across from this gorgeous woman who's not emotionally vulnerable, it's like being in a museum. You could appreciate the beauty, but there's no real connection. And with you, I knew that our connection would grow because of the emotional vulnerability. The availability that you had brought up mine." — Benjamin Shield

Continue On Your Journey:

Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa

Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com