Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®," the podcast that delves into the complexities of relationships and guides you towards finding a true, secure connection. In today's episode, titled "Spark First or Flame Later: Exploring the Chemistry Conundrum in Relationships," our host, Lisa Shield, takes a deep dive into the often misunderstood topic of chemistry in relationships. Join us as we unravel the mysteries behind immediate connections, attachment styles, and the importance of taking things slow. Get ready to reevaluate your approach to love and learn how to build a strong, secure, and lasting relationship. Let's dive in! Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
- Discussion of attachment theory and its influence on partner choice
- Highlighting the volatility and toxicity of relationships with anxious-avoidant attachments
- Realization that chemical attraction isn't the best foundation for a relationship
- Understanding the need to find different ways to connect with potential partners
- Exploration of managing one's own anxiety and building secure attachments
- Importance of taking time to get to know each other in building a strong relationship
- Emphasizing the need to observe how a person responds in difficult situations
- Encouraging enjoyment of the dating journey and taking the time to get to know each other
- Importance of finding a partner who respects boundaries and desires for a slower pace
- Identification of avoidant behaviors early on, particularly in men
- Differentiation between confident pacing and overwhelming love bombing
- Desire for calm and peace in relationships, especially in the early stages
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Continue On Your Journey:
Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa
Email the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com