Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

3 Things To Help a Man Open Up To You

Episode Summary

Have you ever been on a date (or in a relationship) and wanted the man to open up to you, but felt as though he wouldn’t? This week, Lisa welcomes her husband Benjamin to share a few practical and easy techniques to get your man to open up to you. Whether you are on a first date or years into a relationship, these simple suggestions will create a space for both you and a man to feel lighter, more connected, and joyful!

Episode Notes

  What You’ll Hear In This Episode: 

• How to create vulnerability in the context of trust and safety, without sharing every detail of your life.
• Some specific examples of what you could share on a date that is vulnerable and will help a man feel closer to you while still leaving some room for subtlety.
• Instead of interviewing your date, we learn to receive and reciprocate.
• The art of playfulness takes away anxiety and brings a lighter mood to both you and your date.
• Humour creates an instant connection.
• Why insatiable curiosity is not only a turn on for men, but something they crave in their day to day life.
• Date isn’t asking a lot of questions? Don’t discard him yet!
• Two strangers can be genuinely curious about each other and have a magical evening and go their separate ways, so even if your date isn’t your soulmate, you can still learn something and practice these techniques.
• We remember how people make us feel, so make sure you are in the bell jar and present with who is in front of you.

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Quotes: 

• It requires a certain confidence to be playful. - Lisa
• Laughter washes away anxiety. - Benjamin
• There is something magical about the art of presence and being in the moment. - Lisa